We must to admit that depression has became such an epidemic nowadays what can't prevent you from not knowing people in bad state - would you date a depressed persons.
Statistics show; Anxiety and depression disorders are the most common mental illness in the U.S., affecting 40 million adults in the United States age 18 and older, or 18% of the population
It's not uncommon for someone with an anxiety disorder to also suffer from depression or vice versa. Nearly one-half of those diagnosed with depression are also diagnosed with an anxiety disorder.
Looking only on this data - what’s going on only in the U.S we understand that at first we must swallow the fact that probably yourself and your best friends are already “infected”.
Are you considering yourself depressed or chronically stressed?
You are not alone!If you are happy person that's enjoying from what people usually wish you in birthday time ...I would like to ask what's your secret to keep being so content?
- Are you dancing every night and laughing just because you feel beautiful? Are you drinking Alcohol on daily basis? are you taking any drugs?
- Do you feel gratitude on all the things you have and feel blessed?
- Are you free from work/ money worries?
- Costs are low and you have time to focus only on your hobbies?
Would you date a depressed person?
What do I mean with saying “INFECTED ” (..infecting from who?)
We are living on earth that is a paradise, we sleep everyday peacefully - we breath fresh air, we are dancing all nights for at least 10 minutes with favorite songs, we are paying only symbolic price to our apartments, food is so cheap and organic, all cars are solar and we are smelling every day walking to our favorite work roses flowers smell - we are smiling the same times per day as we enjoyed living with 5 years old, TV-news are all about animals and scientific innovation, the water we drink is pure and we feel in love because of the peace we have inside, we also free to express our sexuality to men or women without any judgement.
Asking you..
Do you really think humans can handle the exact contrary to the paradise i’ve described?
Of course, we all infected- surrounded by hate, wars, aggression, criticism, competition..
Wouldn’t you to date a person that perhaps more sensible than you; that maybe doesn't afraid to say: “I'm depressed”?
Would you judge a guy that tells you he’s seeing psychotherapist because of being depressed?
“Medication? Me?- No thanks god- I’m healthy man; let’s go to bar I want to get drunk - I had a crazy day” - Sounds better?
In the end of the day, all is consciousness reducing to minimum any judgmental pattern - saying I’m better than other - or if he smokes or depressed I don’t date him.
And last one..
Maybe if you, will learn to this person - will know and understand, respect him- thanks to your positive approach this man will feel happier and will start helping to your issues that for sure are not few, depression symptoms will disappear with surrounded by love and feel important.
You don’t need to heal no-one, just being yourself - seeing the heart of the man and not the stories or symptoms.
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