Tantra and Male Sexual Healing with Osher

Hello I've been dealing with sexual issues since I first became gay, when I was a teen when I hooked up with oral I would not talk the person again. I lost my vg top and bottom at 19, but went into a relationship where I was the bottom only for a very big well endowed guy for a year and a half. After that I was confused and had a hard time finding myself, because when I topped I couldn't last for longer than 2 mins sometimes less and didn't want to bottom because of my first relationship. Throughout my 20's I abused myself sexually with lots of hook ups, hate to say it but at this current moment been with over 300 guys and not even sure if that is accurate. For a while I thought I had a sex addiction, but felt it was the norm in gay society. I've cheated in all my relationships and most of my relationships we have 3somes or 4 somes that sometimes end badly. At this current moment I have a loving partner who is amazing and verse, but I find myself s...

Are you exclusively Bottom or Top  FOR THE GAY MAJORITY IT SEEMS THAT "BOTTOMS" ARE DOMINATING THE FIELD - IN OTHER WORDS, NOBODY IS 100% TOP THE SO CALLED - "VERSATILE MEN" - BORN DUE TO THIS INCORRECT INTERPRETATION. The idea of being "bottom" is sublimed by the subconsciousness which extremely would identify itself like "feeling woman" in bed (also when speaking about hairy super-masculine man), it's very confusing indeed to some of us to understand how this alpha-male look may be enjoying being bottom. Whole is holy! Let's understand the energy and scientific rules that manage the Tantric philosophy: If we are comfortable to relate to "Masculine-energy" is value of PLUS (+) and to the "Feminine-energy"  the value of MINUS (-) we can start imagining the electricity process like in any other electronic-device. In simple words, If man wants to experience best orgasm ever (ta...

In matter of fact gays and homosexual aren't the same - THIS IS THE LIFE-STYLE FACTOR Confused? Let's understand the "gay" concept before we see better the terms difference. The gayhood has been derived from the 70's among small queer group in California demonstrating for equality and rights (obviously were more feminine type and same to what everyone today can notice.."gay").  The queer's manifestation was so successful that all a lot's of non-queer kind that are homosexual of course, joined to this revolution. Thanks to their success, today is legal to "gay marriage" in the United States. The exact definition of gay is to be weird, queer, different...Not homoexual men are taking this defintion and we find more men that will hide themselves from gay scene or will be married with wife instead as a better alternative to live in harmony.  Of course today we see "gay masculine" but the term is very confusing still. Th...