Tantra and Male Sexual Healing with Osher

There are so many men in closet that are married with children than are keep struggling between cheating with a guy when persisting love their wife. My email explodes every day with such same stories from all over the world. here is one for example: Osher,  I've watched every one of your youtube videos and I am seeking you out, because I've learned through self-observation that sexual energy, is not always intended to end with an ejaculatory orgasm.  I am happily married with four beautiful children.  In my late teen years and early twenties I was a singer in NYC, lived the party life, abused sex from the age of 12-23 finding satisfaction in experiences with both women and men.  I had a spontaneous spiritual awakening one night at four in the morning at the age of twenty-three and I have never been the same.  I have had spiritual experiences, that I can remember since the age of four, but I never thought anything about them.  I just knew ...

Hello I've been dealing with sexual issues since I first became gay, when I was a teen when I hooked up with oral I would not talk the person again. I lost my vg top and bottom at 19, but went into a relationship where I was the bottom only for a very big well endowed guy for a year and a half. After that I was confused and had a hard time finding myself, because when I topped I couldn't last for longer than 2 mins sometimes less and didn't want to bottom because of my first relationship. Throughout my 20's I abused myself sexually with lots of hook ups, hate to say it but at this current moment been with over 300 guys and not even sure if that is accurate. For a while I thought I had a sex addiction, but felt it was the norm in gay society. I've cheated in all my relationships and most of my relationships we have 3somes or 4 somes that sometimes end badly. At this current moment I have a loving partner who is amazing and verse, but I find myself s...

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In matter of fact gays and homosexual aren't the same - THIS IS THE LIFE-STYLE FACTOR Confused? Let's understand the "gay" concept before we see better the terms difference. The gayhood has been derived from the 70's among small queer group in California demonstrating for equality and rights (obviously were more feminine type and same to what everyone today can notice.."gay").  The queer's manifestation was so successful that all a lot's of non-queer kind that are homosexual of course, joined to this revolution. Thanks to their success, today is legal to "gay marriage" in the United States. The exact definition of gay is to be weird, queer, different...Not homoexual men are taking this defintion and we find more men that will hide themselves from gay scene or will be married with wife instead as a better alternative to live in harmony.  Of course today we see "gay masculine" but the term is very confusing still. Th...